Social Crutches

These social crutches are mostly go unseen and are invisible as it has been women into our fabric of society and it seems very normal to get involved in them recreationally and not to notice when your fully have become an addict to.

Drinking
Most people that I have observed in social gatherings, they are very shy and depend on alcohol to break the social ice and open up to the social atmosphere, and for them to enjoy company or let loose.

Some use alcohol to hide their real self and brings out their happy side out for social event, it basically masks the truth till further day.

Others abuse alcohol to subdue the anger and anguish inside them, so they won’t feel the pain or bring them to a happy state where the bigger issues don’t matter, and they stay at this state as long as the bigger problem is gone

Smoking
it’s no longer a cheap habit to smoke, it now its cost as much as a good breakfast or lunch to be smoking, with packet prices reaching 11$ and some smokers puffing two packs away.

Smokers can be classified in a few categories, second hand smoke, social smoker, regular smoker and addict smoker.

-Second Hand Smoke:
They breathe a second hand air in a room or gathering mostly from their spouse or loved one, because they tolerate them or can’t bring themselves to remove them from the situation, with all the research and facts about second hand smoking we might still never know why they do it

-Social Smoker:
Only smokes when they are peer pressured or when it is available to smoke in a gathering or crowed, mostly because they feel missed our or are bullied to smoke socially or fear of being outcast.

-Regular Smoker
they smoke 5 to 10 a day or more to bring their nicotine levels back to the regular state, these group can refrain from smoking if there needs to be, and won’t go out of their way to get their quick nicotine fixes, they have just become custom to a routine which they find themselves hard to get out of

-Addict Smoker
These groups of smokers smoke excessive amount and puff out more than a pack a day.
They can’t seem to find a happy medium, mostly cussed from stress of work social and life style. They will create a hazardous environment to live for themselves loved ones and their pets and plants.
They find every way possible to get their fixes of nicotine in middle of meals to middle of movies and so on.
When confronted with their addiction they become hostile and defensive of their habits, very similar to the extremes in Alcohol addicts, sex addicts and drug addicts.

Drugs
Same way as classified for smokers, drug users fall in casual and leisure to addict life style in drug usage.
These crowed once used drugs as modes of social and sexual heightening to extremes of refuge and where they find drugs as shelter and form of expression.
With intervention these users can seek rehab courses and body cleansing find rehabilitation of living life dug free, it’s usually a long journey but worth traveling for better life style and healthy mind and body.


sex
Sexual addiction where I have a bit more experience with is the toughest issue even for me to crack.

as they say, "the darkest point of guiding light is right underneath it" so it with sex addiction as it goes undetected for a long time till the sexual addict is questioned or caught by whom they are close to.

in our modern North American life style sex is a huge driving factor and it is acceptable to be sexually perverse, heightened or acceptable, but sex is always a find line where it is never distinguished and seems a lot of people in our society are abusing sex and it is being used for allot of validation in life.

Sex feels good and gives a man or a woman a gratification of being wanted and loved, especially when performed with someone who are partnered or in communion with.

Some fall into a routine of sex life style which then becomes shallow and has to be performed almost daily to find a gratification or a fake love which is shallow in it and never lasting.

Sexual addiction is hard to point out and even harder to reveal to loved ones, most sex addicts are healthy range between 16 and 60 they are of healthy health and male and female.

There is cure for sexual addiction, cures range from seeing a group of counseling such as a group SLAA (sex and love Addiction anonymous) which have a 12 step process approach for sex addiction.

There group with regular psychiatrist meeting can keep your addiction in check, and if does get worse there are pills and other methods which your psychiatrist can divulge when you’re in the course of your personal recovery.

Some of these might not be triggering point for everyone but for me for instance sex is something I have an issue with, obstacles that I have on my path are at most not understood by everyone and can’t be divulged except dealt with so as in all addiction I can have a healthy mind and body to live happily

Currently my bottom lies are in tact i have not meet any one for sex, and have not looked for hookup online, but i have gratified my self with online videos and pictures but masturbation is not on my bottom lines, as i i don't see it as a threat to my sorority.

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