Routine in Addiction

Sex addiction is as easy as a routine in life, which needs to be found and routed from its basis; this method of addiction is visible to everyone else but can be formed as social dominance or high sex drive by 3rd party.

Since sex is mostly practiced behind closed doors no one can really determine if you’re an addict or was it an emotional and loving demonstration of affection, only the party involved can determine that judgment.

A sex addict sees sex as a portal or a vhichle to express or find self gratification; this can be anonymously through masturbation routine or physically through a sex routine.

Each routine is different pairing to the physical and mental capacity or need, each of these routines would start with subtle actions and evolve during the course of some one’s life.

Each sexual act committed releases endorphins in the brain creating a moment of happiness which lasts only few hours. These endorphins are also known as "natural pain killer" in medical terminology.

Similar to prescription painkillers a sex addict would similarly be hooked on these endorphin releases and would commit the sexual act in order to kill emotional or physical pain induced by life or social life.

One downside to the Endorphin release, our brain evolves and demands more action and stimulation in order to release the endorphins, thus creating a catch22 with the body. Meaning the person has to increase the sexual activity duration or heightening to register in the brain.

These can evolve to hours of masturbation to self educing pain to obtain pleasure.

In each extreme, patients have clinically adapted to the situation without themselves knowing, it appears normal and kosher to do it as they see the end reward by endorphin.

Keeping a clean routine with low to no sexual activity is highly recommended for sex addicts; they slowly are introduced to masturbation and given pills if they can’t obtain from sex before the re-equalization.

The sex addicts are cured but it’s a lifelong of watching and keeping to routines and counting your action and monitoring yourself in order to eliminate slipping and relapses.

So far in my routine I have been sex free and I have masturbated only at my own presence only and have not given to the sexual tendencies and fantasies that sometimes come over me.

"Keep coming back"